If I ever write any book, its title gonna be " Proud to be a mangalik" or Rapidex marriage guid for Mangalik's".. There are three type of marriage. Love,Arrange and Love cum arrrange. There is nothig called Arrange cum love. This is just an ego boost for losers saying they also have done something interesting in their life.. In the last scenario, to think about it , you don't have any option.
Arrange marriage is nothing but checklist completion..You suddenly understand the importance of matrimonioal section of HIndustan Times when your run, jumps, and pick up and shouts at newspaper wala even he is 5 minutes late.. Ok last one is just to add emotions and flavour.
Another important item is small diary. Arrange marriage is not to be consiedred successful unless you have 4 big diaries filles of gals/boys date ,place,time, of birth..You suddenly find how important is these things in life..
So my newspaper advertisement is something like " Suitable match for tall,hsome,fair 5 11',working in mnc 10LPA". call Vijay sachdeva 9871097849....
Profiles start coming and checklist starts.
Punjabi - Checked (now move to next step)
Arora - Checked
Mangalik /Anshik mangalik - Checked (Gun calculation)
Height : Checked
Gal Professionally qualified - Checked
Salary - Checked
I read Chetan Bhagat' two states.. HIs take on Love marriage is :
Boy loves Girl. Girl loves Boy.
Girl's family has to love boy.
Boy's family has to love girl.
Girl's Family has to love Boy's Family.
Boy's family has to love girl's family.
Girl and Boy still love each other.
They get married.
Now my take on Arrange marriage :